A spanking is given on a woman’s bottom. It is not for anywhere else. Corporal punishment can conjure up images of civic punishments such as flogging, or as medieval experiences like you can see in the leather crowd, but marital spanking just uses the bottom as the place of punishment. If you get very far out of that wonderful little spot, you are entering different territory.
There are good reasons for the spanking to be delivered to this eminently spankable zone. Perhaps the greatest reason is the physical — the bottom is soft and has some padding. This means it can easily absorb the strokes of the spanking. That moderates the amount of pain you might feel receiving one, since it is not going directly on the muscle, and also greatly lowers any risk of injury. As someone who’s spanked bottoms countless times, you’d really have to be going crazy on it to cause any lasting injury. God made the bottom a wonderful place to sit, and to be spanked.
Spanking on the bottom is best also because it is very humbling, and that fits in with the nature of punishment. If I want the message to sink in to my wife, it is good for that humbling to be there to assist the overall message of the discipline. Baring the bottom is better for that than the back. The bottom, being associated strongly with sex, also adds to the intimacy of the discipline, an intimacy I think we should desire between man and wife. She might raise her bottom for sex with her man, and she also raises it for discipline. Both speak to the union man and wife have, and also speak to his command and power. Going bottoms up tells the man– you’re the boss.
There are many who practice wife spanking who will add several stripes to their wife’s upper thighs — just below the bottom — usually for a unique reason. She may have resisted during a punishment, for example, and those strokes are a strong deterrent. That area is far less protected by padding, and the pain is very immediate and strong, and it will bruise more deeply. Like other husbands I’ve talked to, this is something I only use occasionally. Several strokes there are for added emphasis, only when needed.
Men who begin to venture into punishing other parts of the body, are drifting out of what is commonly recognized as domestic discipline. I won’t say it is always wrong, but I don’t endorse or practice it. Punishing other parts of the body is common in bdsm, but far less common in wife spanking. I believe this drifts out of the spirit of marital spanking, and seems to fit more in a civil punishment such as flogging, or in a dungeon, rather than a marriage. Spanking on the bare bottom fits the character of marriage, is intimate, shows the wife’s submission, and is safer by far. A man’s discipline of his wife should really hit the spot.
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