I have written about common spanking positions before. In my discipline descriptions I also mention several positions I have my wife in when I correct her. I don’t think any of the positions stand on their own in the way that OTK (over the knee) does, and it remains an attractive position for both husband and wife. He places his woman over his lap, or over the top of one leg, uses one hand to hold her in place, and with the other commences to spank her bottom. Almost every couple uses this position sometimes, and enjoys its unique benefits.
OTK brings physical closeness between the man and his wife, which few other positions do. It allows him to enjoy her body, and feel it against him, while he goes about his business. It also provides the same closeness for the wife, and may be of relative comfort to her, during the ordeal of her spanking. She is kept in a safe, and fairly comfortable position over her husband’s knee, or his lap, a counterpoint to the shame and pain of her spanking. The husband feels every squirm as he spanks her, as well as any possible acts of resistance. The man’s presence is always palpable to the wife, as she is held up by her man, and kept in place.
The OTK position is also humbling in its own way. A wife’s body is resting on her husband’s, not being able to stand on its own. The connection to a common childhood spanking position also can heighten a woman’s vulnerability as she is placed OTK. She is ready to release her guilt, and receive her punishment from a trusted and beloved person. Certain other positions connote more formal discipline, such as school paddling, or civic whipping, but OTK carries an intimacy and humbling that is most like childhood, and in its closeness appropriate for marriage.
A husband spanking his wife OTK usually has one hand touching her at all times, along with feeling her body draped over his legs. His hand, or his arm, holds her firmly in place. Even when holding her firmly is not necessary, it provides a constant warm connection during her spanking, letting her feel his hand on her bare waist, or the weight of his arm over her. He senses as her body grows warm, and if it begins to sweat. Her husband virtually surrounds her as she dangles over him, getting lovingly put back in her place. This is an advantage during discipline, and reminds both of the loving connection between them. Giving her a bare-hand spanking only adds to this connection.
The OTK position sitting in a chair is similar, and offers a unique experience. A woman’s near complete, or complete weight will be on her husband’s lap. She will feel her own legs, and arms hanging down. It may not be as comfortable as OTK on a bed, but the physical connection is still there, as is the reliance on her husband’s power to hold her in place. Just make sure you have a strong chair, as you don’t want to end up rolling on the floor together, and have to buy a new one. Men who have a common chair for work or for rest, may find it makes an advantageous place to correct their wives OTK, and may be a constant reminder to them both of the husband’s position. A wife will see the spot of correction each day. Others use a special chair only for discipline, which itself may put them in the right mindset for a correction session, once it is brought out.
Other than the warm physical contact, I find giving my wife a spanking OTK makes it easier for me to lecture her. There is something about the position and connection itself that helps the words flow as I explain her wrong, and verbally remind her of her position and her right behavior. It aids in being firm in chastisement, and in being aware of its loving purpose. It can help the wife remember her husband’s love as well, and communicate her remorse. You are literally holding her close as you correct her, and that affects the mindset slightly. The words of correction pour out without having to feel forced or very formal. Other spanking positions that come off as more formal punishment, and lack that connection, may aid in some regards, but they are distant to the degree they do not help my words of correction flow. You may not feel the same as you try it though.
Correcting your wife over your lap requires you avoid longer instruments, either because they’d be awkward or impossible to use. The larger kind of paddle should be replaced with the smaller kind. You could not use a cane, although a riding crop would work. You may use a folded-over belt on her bottom, but it will be less effective than using if from more of a distance. OTK works best if you spank with your hand, a small paddle, a hairbrush, or similar instruments. A hand spanking over the knee forges quite a warm connection. It may not be as hard as one with an instrument, but her bottom will be bright red, and your hand will be changing color too.
The spanking husband has many options available to him in how to manage discipline. I think most will agree with some of these unique aspects of disciplining a wife OTK. A few men use the position nearly all the time. I’d have to admit it’s my favorite, despite its shortcomings in limiting the kind of instrument you can choose to give discipline. Having a wife in such an intimate position reminds of the heart of the marriage itself. So too does a husband’s hold on her, even if he has to hold her down. Her tears during the spanking will nearly fall upon him. As she feels his body, on which she is supported, she is reminded she belongs to him.
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