Often times when I have my wife over my knee, I find my words to her many times more effective than if I had spoken to her normally. My wife hears and takes to heart my words very well and quickly if she is being spanked. Where at other times she might think she could forget them, or that something I told her to do could be put off, the power of words if greater if I am speaking to her backside and her ears at the same time. She knows the immediacy of them. She knows she has to do them, and she will, because she really doesn’t want to be back in the same place punished again. She has also absorbed them more deeply into her soul.
I can think of a few times when I led my wife gently to the place of correction, my hand on her side. I told her — you had the chance to listen to me before but you did not. Now we are going to have a different kind of talk, and I know you’re going to hear me. I gave her a little time to think about it, then I proceeded to spank her and to instruct her.
There is something in the firmness and pain of each stroke that make a husband’s words sink in. They go more quickly to the brain with the assistance of the bottom. She has to hear them. She has to be attentive to them. She needs to affirm every time she is going to obey them. A spanking not only puts a red highlight on your words, but helps her receive them in her heart. Where it is too slow to get medicine by swallowing it, for example, we might need to give it by injection to the bloodstream. The spanking, so to speak, is the healing injection. It brings your instructions into her place of life quickly. For that reason, I find my wife is quick to correct after a punishment when she has done wrong . If she’s been negligent she’s quick to get back on her work. If she has been pushing it with her mouth, she is quick to make sure she speaks gently more respectfully. No conversational reminder accomplished this. A firm talk with her over my knee did.
A spanking certainly speaks to the soul very quickly. It strips her of any false pride. It makes her soft and vulnerable. It places her man’s authority at the forefront in a way that she can feel it. It gets her accustomed to bending to his authority, as she undresses, bends her body over, and can feel she is within his grip. Even as she fears the spanking, there is shame and there is guilt she really wants to be washed away. Then as he begins the spanking, and she begins to feel the blows coming, he instructs her, makes her see her wrong. Makes her accept her disobedience. He also gives her a clear way to correct that stain and get back on the path. This is powerful for her. It has broken down her barriers. It has disarmed any arrogance or any distance she might have. You can instruct her better now over your knee.
She knows that her man is rightfully offended by her behavior, and she wants to end that offense. She wants the way out, and he shows her, with time, as he spanks her, what she needs to do in the future. His words are calm, but unwavering. She has to hear his words and affirm she will do them. Her man explains again her rightful attitude to have, and need for obedience, and between her nakedness, humble position, shame, and burning backside she realizes she needs to do them. She realizes her man’s authority. Her urgent need to respect him. She also wants him to know her real desire to please him, to see his offense pass. She craves a chance to make it right, and to hear his praise and affection. She is soft at your words. They sink in. She surrenders to them as she has to you physically. You have shaped her as you chastised her firmly, thoughtfully, and without relenting. Your words, along with the spanking, have sunk in.
The spanking lets you speak deep into her. That is a thing words alone don’t always do. Even though she feared it, and is relieved it is over, there is something right and at peace now. Something changed. Her resistance to you and her guilt are gone, if you have been thorough. She is ready for the next stage, which is great calm between you, and easy affection. She is happy now to have the chance to show you her beautiful submission, and see you love all the things about her you always do. She will not easily forget the lesson or your instructions. They will be ringing within her. There will be an inner reminder also if she begins a similar failing, and she will remember to pull back from it. That’s something she should not repeat. The spanking does not make her flawless, but it refines her, and softens her, and makes every word you say count. You can speak them deep within her.
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