There are legitimately many varieties of spanking a husband can give as head of the home. One element of spanking that I try to always include, is that my wife will be feeling it the next day. It will be a thorough enough punishment that she will have some soreness, and aching on the backside. She will certainly feel it sitting down. This element is naturally a part of how long and hard a spanking is, but I think is important in its own right. I find that this after-effect of the discipline helps her in her submission.
There is no formula to make sure you leave her with this kind of reminder on her bottom. A husband just has to accustom himself to his wife’s sensitivities, as well as to the instrument he uses, and how hard he is using it. It’s important to note that giving a spanking that leaves her sore does not require going to the extreme of power, but only using enough force. Naturally, instruments make it easier than trying it with your hands. With some instruments, longer and lighter will bring the same desired results. To hear the people who use birch bundles talk, the light and soft twigs, used enough times, will not only leave her regretful she misbehaved, but very sore the next day.
The obvious benefit that I have found in this kind of spanking, is that the soreness functions as a reminder to her. This calling card of her man’s authority helps her to be responsive to me, and very attentive to what I say. It also helps her consider her actions if a temptation to return to the same behavior comes along soon. Spankings work not only on the behavior, but on her overall softness to me, and help her conform to my will. I may not mention the infraction again after I have spanked her, but she still has an awareness of the consequences of her actions, and her need to be submissive. She has that every time she sits down. She will feel it as she goes about her work throughout the day. She is mine, and she is subject to me.
I don’t knock husbands who are softer than what I describe. I certainly think a simple bottom smacking that serves in the moment to correct a wife can do some good. It can turn around an errant attitude quickly. It can put a stop to bad behavior. That’s useful. I just don’t think that the milder form of discipline is as effective, especially because I see value in the reminder left on her bottom. It is something that will stick with her in more ways than one. My wife is wonderfully responsive in the days following a spanking, and these are times she has that reminder with her. I may let her sit on a pillow, but I want her to feel it. If she has had a spanking for neglecting her responsibilities, when she immediately gets back to doing them, she is feeling that reminder on her backside as she works. It is a motivator. It helps connect her to me during that period she returns to behaving the right way.
Soreness which continues a day or so can be challenging for the lady. This is especially true if she is new to being disciplined, or if she did not fully accept the punishment in her heart. It can become a challenge. It has to spark her to know deeply that she really is yours. To know that honoring your headship is of great importance. That is why submission is something she grows in over time, and why she has to let the lessons you give her shape her inside. The very fact they come from you, and are for her good, will help her to accept the difficulty she may feel. Athletes deal with being sore once in a while too. So do laborers. It is hardly a crime that a wife being corrected should have to learn to live with a sore backside, for her own growth in virtue, and as your wife.
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