It is not common that my wife is argumentative with me, and occasionally if she starts, I can let her know she should not continue, and she listens carefully. Rarely, I have to punish her her for arguing. Her recent discipline happened because she persisted in arguing with me in front of the children, over a subject I cannot even think of anymore. She went well beyond voicing her thoughts, or giving me helpful advise, into ignoring what I had told her to do, even when I had said it three times, and told her I was decided already. Our children were there, unfortunately, and had to see a rare example of this behavior.
I fully accept hearing my wife’s opinion on matters, but her behavior was disrespectful, and I’m sure she had a voice inside to tell her that. I had even told her in the middle of her belligerence– If this continues you are going to be in trouble. It was the first time in about a year I’d spanked her for being argumentative, and the lesson I would give her that night was similar to the last time — both one of respect, and learning where the line is between offering helpful information and arguing.
I think she knew something was coming, as she was fairly quiet the rest of the day. After the children were in bed, I told her — We’re going to have a talk tonight because of the behavior you showed me this morning. I think you know what I am talking about. That kind of friction you gave me is not acceptable. We’re going to work on that tonight.
Sometimes my wife is one to make excuses, or become upset about learning she’ll be spanked, but she was peacefully accepting, and knew she’d been out of line. She told me she was sorry, and just was having a frustrating time. She shouldn’t have spoken out against me.
I said I’m sure she knew it was wrong, and was happy to know she could see her wrong. But she was going to have to learn a lesson tonight. Her behavior disrespected me and set a terrible example for the children. I had told her the discussion was over, and she needed to listen, and stop then. I had warned her, and she didn’t want to heed.
Take this off and kneel on the end of the bed — I told her.
Usually I will have my wife wait for me to start, so she has time to think about what is coming and why, but I really did not wish to spend the time with that process, especially since it was late.
She undressed and placed herself on the bed on her knees. I repositioned her so that her shoulders were on the bed, and butt held high. I gave her panties a few tugs to bare her bottom and take them down to below her thighs. Then I picked up the strap.
Do you know why you are being disciplined tonight?
Yes sir.
You understand you were disrespectful to your husband?
Yes sir.
I gave her seven or eight hard straps and continued.
You are to help your husband, not cause friction for him. Did you give me help?
No I didn’t, sir. I’m sorry.
I continued to strap her bottom.
You may offer me helpful information or advise, but you do not argue with your man. Your behavior was disrespectful and out of line.
I’m sorry, sir.
When I am decided you need to simply listen to me, and then do what I told you to do. That’s it.
I gave her a number of straps across her bottom, as she began to squirm and wriggle. Then I slowly walked to the other side of her and continued.
You need to remember this — you have crossed the line when I have told you I know and I am decided anyway. Once I say that, and you continue many times, you are not helping me anymore, but are arguing and going against me. When I warn you, then you also know you are out of line. Listen to those warnings, and listen to your voice inside. Do you understand where the line is?
Yes sir, I do.
I gave her another seven or eight straps as she bit down on the gag to soften a few squeals.
You are to help your man, and to honor him. You do not disrespect me. Is that clear? Yes sir.
Are you going to do that? Yes I will, sir.
I have her another series of straps, covering the top of her backside to the bottom, and walked again slowly to her other side.
I need to see a better attitude from you the next time. I need to see that you offer me help. You help me to do what I need to do, and you do not argue with me and try to do the opposite. I need to see a submissive and a helpful attitude from you. Am I going to see that next time, woman.
Yes sir, I will help you next time.
I brought another series of straps down, as she held in several yelps.
You need to be helpful next time, and you need to listen to my words. Is that clear? Yes sir.
Do you know where the line is? Yes I do, sir.
I strapped her up and down the bottom, and went back to her other side.
Are you committed to submitting to your husband? Yes sir.
Do you want to have to go through this spanking again?No sir.
Do you like having to be corrected like this? No sir.
Then you be committed to your submission, and you listen to your man.
I strapped her up to ten times again on her reddening backside, which she kept up in the air, squirming a little.
Have you learned your lesson tonight? Yes sir.
Are you going to be respectful next time? Yes sir.
I do not. Slap.
Want to see that. Slap.
From you. Slap.
Ever. Slap. Again. Slap.
Do you understand? Slap
Yes I do, sir — she managed between sobs.
Okay, we are finished now — I told her. I placed my arm around her shoulder, and led her to sitting up. You can go stand in the corner now until I call you.
She thought she could pull up her panties then, but I told her — No, lower them so I can see your backside. She pulled them back down and went to the corner.
You think about why this hard lesson happened, and what your commitment in the future will be — I said.
I gave her some time in the corner, while I did some reading. As usually I let her take a box of tissue with her, as she’d been crying.
Come here and kneel down — I called her. She came from the corner and knelt in front of me before the bed.
Now you understand why I gave you this lesson tonight?
Yes, sir.
How are you prepared to behave the next time?
I will be respectful to you. I’ll listen to you.
Do you understand where that line is with arguing and disrespect? I have told you before.
Yes, sir. I need to listen when you make the decision, and I need to stop if I am arguing.
That’s right, and you need to heed my warnings also. If you do that, you won’t end up here again. I know that was hard for you, but I think you understand why I spanked you, and you really want to learn this lesson. You really want to be respectful to your man.
Yes sir.
Okay. I know I’m going to be seeing better from you. And I trust it won’t happen again. We’re finished.
She was still breathing a little heavily, and sniffling from the tears, but had mostly calmed down from the heart of the punishment. I gave her a kiss on her forehead, and led her slowly into my arms. I held her, and kissed her for some time, telling her she is my woman and that I always love her. Even in punishment I never think badly of her, and always care about her. It’s all over. We won’t talk about it again. I know you are a wonderful wife.
We had a wonderful day the following day, and things were back to being peaceful, as they almost always are. I didn’t see any return of that behavior, and I haven’t since. Being argumentative is rare for her to begin with, but I monitor it anyway, and discipline her if it crosses the line. That’s one way to make sure she stays on the rails. My wife was sore for several days after her discipline, which had been long, and had several fading purple spots on her bottom for longer than that. A few minutes being spanked will leave a lasting reminder about good behavior.
As anyone reading my manual knows, I don’t believe discipline is only for the worst offenses, or the most rebellious women. Generally godly and gentle women benefit and grow from being spanked, as my wife does, and they will remember those lessons as well. They will learn from discipline that a red flag goes up inside for certain behavior. They learn they don’t want to repeat it, and they know they do not want the consequences. It also helps them follow their man, as his firm hand in disciplining them reminds them to follow him conscientiously. My wife is like that, and even though disrespect and argument are uncommon for her, she needs a firm reminder sometimes. The lesson is short. Then we have joyous harmony together.
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