A brief word to the women who desire discipline in their marriage:
You are a normal woman and your desire is normal. A woman who wants to experience her man’s strength, including in discipline, is a natural woman. It’s good you want to get spanked. You may be surrounded by friends and peers who think it is wrong, who claim it is aberrant, but it is nothing but a good and natural desire. Being led firmly and spanked by your husband is in harmony with your womanhood — your softness and your yielding — and in a greater sense fulfills a part of your simple humanity. No matter how much your brain has been indoctrinated towards female independence and “strength,” your mind and heart knows the truth. You LOVE to be soft to your man. You know he should be the lord of your life.
It’s also important to know you’re not alone here. You are in good company. No matter what cold night has come down on male leadership in this society, and no matter how commonly it is silenced, people who have traditional homes never simply died out. We are here. There are millions of us. Some of us continued from the previous era, but more privately. Others simply followed their common sense, and learned discipline on their own, despite growing up for years in a feminist society. The public may ban the truth. But the truth never ceases to exist. Countless homes include the man as the unquestioned head, and many also include spanking as a means of correcting a wife. Ladies’ bottoms are getting tanned daily. What has gone on in countless societies for thousands of years never died. You are a part of it. I am a part of it. It is in harmony with our natures as men and women.
A woman who wants to be spanked is following the better part of her nature. She is responding rightly to her femininity. God made her softer. He made her find satisfaction in male strength, and in following the man’s lead. It is not an affront to her — as feminists would like you to believe — but rather the opposite: it helps her realize her womanly character. In her submission she feels complete. She also feels safe and protected. Even the hard moments of a spanking are offset by the reward of knowing her man’s power and his thoughtful concern for her. She loves the deep peace that comes after going through the fire. His instructions, his rules, his firm authority over her bring her what she needs. This should be no surprise. She is the softer sex.
What would you expect from a woman? To act like a man? This might be what a very gender-bent western world would suggest, but it’s not what reason and common sense would tell you. Reason would tell you that a woman would desire to act like a woman, because that is her design. It fits her purpose. She is not built with as much strength as the male. She is not built with the aggression of the male. She does not have that almost obsessive desire to understand truth with clarity and communicate it with precision which are such male traits. Rather she is designed far differently; with a softer body, one that responds to the man, in yielding, and in sexuality. She is designed with a more nurturing nature, with softer emotions, and less aggression. Her grasp of truth is more intuitive, and her feelings lean towards sympathy and understanding, more than towards analyzing and defining things. She does not need to ACT like a man because she is NOT a man. Following her man, rather is natural. Letting him lead is natural. It is fulfilling to be led by him, and so is being spanked.
Many women also experience the sexual element of being spanked and corrected. Their femininity is set aflame by his guidance on her backside. In fact, it is truly impossible to separate sex from power. Making love always includes force, and even controlled violence by the man. Spanking his wife also includes such power, and because it is intimate, is nearly always sexually charged. Spanking her can be like making love to her. Making love can be like violence. There’s nothing wrong with that. Spanking is attractive and sexual because man and wife are built for that power exchange — his hardness and her softness. The sparks of their contact. That power exchange can happen in the bedroom, or bent over the desk during discipline, but it expresses some of the very same elements, and bonds us very in similar ways. The sexual charge of a woman being spanked is, like her deep desire to be led, a natural part of her womanhood. Never be ashamed of feeling that way. It just means you are a natural woman.
Remember, the same people who tell you than a man commanding his wife is wrong are the same people who want to make rules over your life and demand you keep them. They slander the man as an abuser if he firmly leads his wife, yet they want every man and woman to be led by the truly countless rules of the state. They’re not a against rules and punishment. They just desire to be the ones who make them. They affirm the state can force you to obey rules of finance, rules of safety, rules of business, rules of home ownership, rules of travel, rules of transport, rules of import and export, rules of public behavior, even rules of sexual behavior, and if you break ANY ONE of them they want you to get punished. They’d be happy for you to follow what could be commands in the millions, yet they find in unbearable that a wife follow a few simple rules her husband gives her. They are clearly deluded, and the biggest hypocrites imaginable. Never think you are in the wrong just because your man makes rules for you, and he spanks you. You are not in the wrong. You follow a NATURAL order of authority and rules. Those things are good for the wife, just as they are good for society as a whole, as long as they are reasonable. Authority structure, rules, and punishments are good and necessary things.
That is one reason why a woman who longs to be spanked is a normal woman — because as a human being she knows there is satisfaction in having order. There is goodness and protection in an authority structure, and benevolent rules that help us. She also knows as a human being there is restoration and justice when bad behavior is punished. She rightly understands that her misbehavior has set things in disorder, and has disrespected her husband’s authority. Punishment puts that right. Punishment restores her. That’s part of why she feels such cleansing afterward, and such peace. Order is being restored. Her soul is being cleansed of the foul disrespect and rebellion she previously had within her. The right place of her leader and the right respect for law is being restored. The spanking is a small — and more intimate and effective — version of civil justice. The social order needs it, and she knows her soul needs it too. It is good and natural to know you deserve a punishment. It is sane and reasonable to see its benefits.
A natural woman is unashamed to act like a woman. She doesn’t try to fight her nature, but is fulfilled in letting her husband lead her and correct her. She finds fulfillment in the humbling moment of a spanking, even as it hurts. Her softness is restored, and peace is restored, as a spanking brings her back to her place. She craves the strength of her man, and truly appreciates the protection and rest she feels in him. His strength doesn’t maker her try to rise up against him. Rather it heats her with desire, and the great sexual excitement of being desired by him and being taken powerfully by him, in his arms, then in his grip, taken and belonging to him. A natural woman longs for the cleansing that a spanking can bring, even as she cries sometimes in shame at receiving one. She wants the purity restored, rightly, and it is. She knows the order, balance, and harmony produced by authority and submission are a treasure to her home, which she loves, and which she blesses and fills up with life. She is happy in her home, and as a woman, she loves its king.
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