One of the greatest signs of a harmonious marriage, and a beautifully submitted wife is that they share their bodies freely with one another. A wife does not hold back herself physically, and a husband knows he can enjoy his wife when he desires. In contrast, one of the signs of a marriage with conflict, and with a rebellious stubborn wife, is that their bodies are separate, a woman refuses her husband’s advances, and he knows he cannot receive much in the way of love in the bedroom. That’s because a wife’s submission in the marriage bed is a good sign of her submission daily to her husband. Her closeness to him physically and sexually also intensifies their intimate union of souls.
That’s why using intimacy to enhance a woman’s submission is natural to marriage, and positive for it. Marriage is self-nourishing that way. The keys are within the marriage itself to help it fulfill God’s will, and to help man and wife move together in harmony, as a soul should with its body. Sex in that sense is a form of training for marriage as a whole. A man learns and expresses his leadership, a woman learns and expresses her submission, receives from her husband, follows his will. A husband should be aware of this form of nourishment in marriage, and can use it to aid his wife in learning her submission, and to train her in it to the point of mastery. His mastery of his wife, and her mastery of submission.
Giving her oral training is perhaps the simplest and fastest way to help her learn her position. It gives her certain times to focus on pleasing her man, and receiving his command. Pleasuring him sexually this way shapes her inside in a few important ways. It teaches her the submissive position, since she will often give oral on her knees, and have her man above her. This reminds her she is on her knees daily and her man rules her. It teaches her to be receptive to him, to his lead, and to his command, as when she pleasures him she needs to receive his desire in her mouth and be filled with him. That openness to her man will stay with her, as she learns to be receptive to his desire and his words. Oral training teaches her the role of service because it is focused on fulfilling his sexual desire, reflecting her mindset daily that is on serving him and helping him to meet his needs. Like any sexual submission, it teaches her vulnerability and softness to him, the softness of her body to his firmness and power. She experiences him as king. In oral training she learns her belonging to her husband as she kneels and serves him and does all she can to please him.
I recommend training your wife this way with regularity. I don’t tell anyone how often they need to do it, but it should be often enough that it is a normal position for her, and she has grown comfortable with it. Have her learn to respond to your command to get on her knees and your command to pleasure you. Get down on your knees and please your man — should be easy words for her to hear. Give her instructions while she goes down on you, so her mind is engaged in what you desire, and in what she is doing. Encourage her when she is doing a good job, and if there is something you want, tell her specifically how to use her lips, her tongue, or anything else. Communicate your possession of her body, and of her mouth. Let her know her mouth, lips, tongue, and throat all belong to you.
Pleasing you is an activity you want her to be able to put her whole body into, and to do with passion. You should make sure she is not only moving her lips, but is working with her tongue as well. Give her something to do with her hands, whether it is handling your balls or stroking your body. A lot of women are so focused on the mouth they will forget to work with their hands, so give her reminders of what you want. You can also have her move other parts of her body to your pleasure, so you can watch her move, and enjoy her body. She should be very thorough on her knees to pleasure your balls along with your member, and give much attention to them. Have her spend a good amount of time working on your balls before you send her back up on your cock again. Many women envision this as a less pleasant task, but as they learn to satisfy you this way, they learn to love it, and understand there is nothing they can hold back from you. They need to receive everything you give them, and follow your commands.
You can also teach her to passively receive you by taking control of the act. Hold her tight and take her face as you would take her during sex. She will feel your full possession of her, and her full vulnerability of you as you grasp her firmly and take her mouth, hard or gentle, fast or slow, as you desire. You guide her. You open her up. She is your tender body to enjoy. You can have her put her hands behind her back so she gives up all control, only having her mouth parted, filled up, and enjoyed by her man. You are shaping her. She is learning to bend to your will.
A wife can learn to be open more fully to you when you teach her to take your cock in her throat. The ability is not learned overnight, but it does not take long to learn to relax the throat, and take the end of your member inside of it. Her first practice could be in her regular position, learning to take you a little deeper each time, and relax the back of her throat for you. Eventually, she will be able to receive at least part of your manhood in her throat, and give you the greatest pleasure this way.
Once she is able to receive you, you can take her deeply in varying positions, but a position with her neck bent back is ideal. One of the easiest is to have her lay on the end of the bed, with her head hanging backward over the edge. Her mouth and throat will be well aligned that way. Then you can straddle her face and take her throat. Taking her this way can also be done normally on the bed if she is on her back. Simply lay a pillow beneath her shoulders, so her head will lean back, and take her from above her head. It will be easier for the man to balance this way, and the lean on her neck won’t be as severe as over the edge of the bed. It is also easy for the man to enjoy her body and fondle her while he takes her throat. Another way is to lay on your back, and have your wife kneeling close to your head, facing your feet, going down on you. You will find she has nearly the same angle on the throat. If you want to take charge, you can wrap your arm around her waist, take her by the hair, and easily start having her deep.
Over time, your wife should increase in her ability to pleasure you well, and in her enthusiasm to please you. Don’t expect great growth overnight, as it takes time to learn new techniques, and to grow comfortable with giving oral on command. A new wife who only licked her husband’s member dutifully will be bringing him to heights of pleasure as they grow in their marriage. She will be learning how he loves to be touched. She will be learning his responses, in what signals he is excited, and what signals he is nearing a climax. She will put her heart into pleasuring him, and learn to love the time she spends on her knees, not just in what it does for him but what it does for her. She will take pleasure in pleasuring him, and knowing that she is able to satisfy her man.
What you are doing in training her this way, as with other forms of sexual training, is helping to break down any barriers between you. It wipes away any resistance. When a wife is able to respond immediately to you, she starts losing thoughts of autonomy, of being better, of being critical of you. She is learning simple obedience, and complete giving of herself. She is also learning your guidance over her and your concern for all she does, as you guide her and speak to her as she gives pleasure. She is not apart from you, but is under your command. A husband should find the ease in guiding his wife as he finds in moving his own hands. They are connected and there is no barrier. A wife experiences this union more deeply through sexual submission. Having her submit orally, regularly, will focus her in learning this. She is your woman. She serves you. She is vulnerable to you. She is watched over by you.
Naturally there are times a woman pleasures her man orally during making love. Some men have their wives pleasure them orally after they spank her. I speak here of using oral solely for training in submission and apart from other activities. It is time only for her to please you, and to do it when you desire it. You may send her on her knees when you have a minute alone together. You may do it before bed or in the morning. You do not even have to take the time to do it to climax, but just give her the chance to respond to you, submit sexually, and feel you in her mouth for awhile. That alone is good for a woman to feel. It is a surprise that awaits her at any time — the incredible closeness of feeling you intimately. She should be ready, and eager, to receive you knowing she is your desire.
It should be remembered that this free uniting in sex is something normal to many marriages, not just ones that involve discipline. Man and wife become one body in marriage, and one part of a body does not deny the other. They enjoy each other when they desire. It is natural to marriage also because the man is the head, and the woman will do his will, whether in the bedroom or anywhere else. It does not take a spanking in a relationship to know that a submissive woman, and a loving woman, wants to please her man and keep him satisfied. That desire to please him comes with being female and with being his wife. I may expand on its usefulness in this article, but I hardly invented this practice. I am merely making observations about it. A woman’s sexual submission helps her grow as a wife.
Most people considering a woman on her knees fellating her man think immediately of the pleasure the man is getting. Yet the woman on her knees is going through a great experience, and fulfilling herself as she moves her lips, and swallows her man’s member. A woman who is on her knees regularly before her man will deepen her submission. This is nearly guaranteed. She experiences her submission by pleasing him with her mouth, she deepens it, an expresses it to him in exquisite detail. She grows in her softness to him and longing for his strength. All the while she knows her lord more intimately, learning his smell, his taste, and his shape as he slides between her lips without end and fills her.
Like a spanking, there are results into the future. There is the peace and closeness that follow shortly after. Then there is also the ease at moving together with harmony that they have in a far-reaching way, and that does not stop. There is the closeness of hearts and understanding, the thoughtfulness of the other that they share. A man also will be at peace knowing no barrier separates him from his wife. She is his completely. No woman could compare. A woman who desires to pleasure her man, and who can keep him satisfied is to be admired and praised. She learns skills only for him, and is able to meet and exceed his desires. A good husband will express to her how amazing and how loved she is.
If the stubborn wife we hear about is rebellious and strays from the home, the godly wife in contrast is soft to her husband, and cares for the home. In the marriage bed, that often translates this way: the stubborn wife is too prideful for intimacy with her husband and strays from their bed. The godly wife follows her husband’s will, and belongs to him in their bed. Don’t doubt the truth of that connection, and the countless marriages it describes. There is peace and beauty in marriage when we follow God’s will. Learning to love the other sexually, and not reject them, is a part of any good marriage. Husbands can grow the strength of their marriage in training their wives sexually, as they train them spiritually. Wives can have the closeness and belonging they yearn for in fulfilling her husband’s desire, and being soft to his command. This is not unique to marriages that involve discipline, but is good for ALL marriages, and is a part of the nature of the union itself. Don’t disregard the fruitfulness of sexual training. Use it thoughtfully and regularly to help your wife grow. She will know she is yours.
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