I could not begin to tell you all of the improvement I have heard from couples in how spanking changed a wife’s behavior. From small to major problems have been put solidly in the past. They might make an occasional reappearance, but their habit, and the mindset that it’s okay to do, have been taken out of her life, and disappeared from the home. I could mention a few long-term changes for the better in my own wife, although I don’t think most is severe. The betterment of behavior, and sustaining submission, are goals that spanking accomplishes, often in a short time. Even the more hardened and rebellious women see change stunning enough that friends and family comment on it, and see that the marriage has improved. So let’s review some of the common behavior from a wife that spanking frees her from.
Perhaps the kind of change most related to spanking, and one that inspires starting discipline in marriage, is bad attitude and disobedience. It is this continual wrong from wives that inspires men to look for ideas, and to discover spanking as a possible solution. Many husbands refuse to tolerate it. Her own attitude and disobedience also is the spark for women to ask their husbands to punish them. They want to be freed from the grip of rebellion on them, and they yearn for the cleansing power that spanking has. Marriages rife with conflict, with wives who think they can boss around their husbands, talk back to them, even insult them, become noticeably peaceful quickly when a wife starts being disciplined.
The spanking humbles her. It reorients her heart. It deters that bad behavior in the future. Suddenly that almost out of control desire some wives have to rise up against their husbands is silent. Her heart is at rest being submissive. She loses the pride that demands she is always right, and can never accept correction. Often wives with bad attitudes and bad mouth are the first to know it is wrong, and are the ones to suggest being spanked. It is likely there are beautiful peaceful marriages you know, with a very sweet wife, that got that way with the help of a husband’s correction. The gentle, sweet wife has her panties snatched down and is spanked long and hard when she’s not so sweet. However challenging it may be to be married to a disobedient wife, know that this is one of the best possible solutions.
Spanking helps wives with bad habits and dangerous ones. That can be heavy drinking — which is very unbecoming of a woman and worse for her than for a man — or reckless driving, or child neglect. Spanking is often what helps her see the serious wrong in this kind of behavior. She learns in no uncertain terms this is wicked and dangerous to human life. She experiences the shame and the hard punishment that rightfully should accompany such bad choices. It becomes much easier for her to adjust her behavior, than to face a severe correction. Discipline for such behaviors can help prevent the damage caused by such recklessness, including loss of property, sickness, and death. At work, a person who did such things would just get fired. In the home it doesn’t work that way. However, she will face something she never wishes to repeat. The home and marriage will become a cleaner, safer place, and much safer for children.
Women who learn towards sensuality, and vanity can also be helped by spanking. Habits that the world thinks are ordinary, but which are wrong, will quickly be left behind. A wife who spends too much money will learn the consequences. A woman who dresses to show off the body will learn to dress more modestly and behave more discreetly. Friends who are a wicked influence on her life will have to depart. Her attachment to hanging out in places that a woman is most vulnerable — such as bars or nightclubs — will easily be released. This correction protects a wife, keeps her from losing her virtue, and keeps the entire household pure. A wife may have picked up these habits over the years, and begun to think they are normal. She learns instead to see the line between right and wrong, which so often gets blurred.
In nearly any marriage, spanking helps a wife with her responsibility. Even with a generally submissive wife at home, I find I need to put her over the knee for disregarding her duties, or putting them off too much. Things I have instructed her to do, or that I know she needs to do, must be done. If she neglects them, she gets spanked, and I find her work is speedily done after I’ve left her bottom sore. It is a fast solution I can count on. You’ll find many husbands who will testify to the same. Spanking helps be the guardrails to keep a wife from being irresponsible, and the entrance for getting her back on the track. Repeatedly dismissing responsibilities you’ve given her to do even goes beyond neglect, and becomes disrespectful. To ignore duties you’ve given certainly shows a lack of respect. It is good to make that lesson in respect a part of her correction if it’s needed. She needs to take your words seriously, and know it is imperative to do them.
It’s not something that I face commonly in my marriage, but sins of the tongue are an area many husbands learn to rein in with discipline. That could be a woman who’s learned habitual gossip, or one who’s learned to manipulate with words, using deceit or plain dishonesty. Truly, her husband’s verbal correction and discipline may be the first serious attempt she’s had to control this behavior. It may be the first time she’s really been able to view it as dark and destructive as it is. She will have a reminder the next time she misuses her tongue, and start living with a new perspective, one that is careful, and controlled in what she says. It is one that gives though to her husband’s instruction on how she is to speak, and learns to model her words in a whole new way. As in other areas, she shifts not only away from bad behavior, but away from a mindset it is alright, or can be justified. As excuses and self-justification slide away, the power to change is enormous. The deterrent against old, past attitudes is strong. She changes for the good.
As I say elsewhere, I don’t credit all the change in a marriage to spanking a wife. Nor do I encourage anyone to rely on it entirely. We each learn in many ways. When it comes to leading, guiding, and correcting a wife, a husband uses much more than this punishment tool. He instructs. He teaches by example. He gives verbal correction and encouragement. He nourishes her spiritually in the Word of God. Spanking is there as a correction, and a very effective one, to punish the worst behavior. No wife grows as a woman only through the strap on her bottom. It is the overall leading and nourishment of her husband that help her, along with his firm hand when he needs to put her over the knee.
Having heard from a number of readers — both in the comments and in mail exchanges — I know many of you have seen the same changes I relate in this article. Others long for that change in their life as well. Women yearn to be made free of their wrongs, and put themselves in their man’s hands to mold and shape them. I know there are more bad habits we could speak of that spanking helps with. These are only ones that I hear about often, or that I have seen personally in my own experience giving discipline. Bad attitude, disobedience, dangerous habits, irresponsibility, and other harms are successfully vanquished by spanking. Home life will be more peaceful, purer, and safe. A wife will maintain a greater sense of reverence for her husband and will be less likely to cause conflict. She will listen with care, and be soft to his words. I want you to enjoy it for yourselves and know what marriage can be.
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